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I'm Jen, founder of BEcoming YOU©, the life revamp and reset programme. Helping women tired of the 'shoulds' and 'musts' to rediscover their sense of identity and fun and get back into the driving seat of their life.
If you're ready to grab the proverbial bull by the horns and rocket through a transformational journey of unbecoming everything you thought you 'should' be so you can become who you were born to be, the most vibrant expression of YOU, with a life you frickin' LOVE to boot then you're in the right place.
Welcom'e amazing lady!
I'm SO excited you're here!
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Sometimes we just need to be brave enough
to outgrow the life we've built.
When we become fearless, life becomes limitless.
That's what I help courageous women just like you do, so my question to you is;
Are you ready to Rise and Shine?
You’re not feeling so amazing right now huh? In fact you haven’t felt amazing for a while...
You've never been a settler and yet you feel like you've kind of just settled somehow. For too long you’ve been existing as opposed to living, where did the fun go?
You've tried punctuating the monotony of this conveyor belt life you've found yourself living by socialising with friends, scrolling absent mindedly through social media, watching YouTube videos of cats over a glass of wine or binge watching the latest series on Netflix.
Anything to stop you from having to actually acknowledge or feel that growing void inside of you, that void you've tried to fill with chocolate, gin, shopping - hell, even yoga!
But nothing's worked has it? It's getting bigger and harder to ignore as you watch your kids growing up waaaaay too fast and think to yourself "sh*t what am I doing with my life? Who am I living for?"
I see you.
Let me ask you something…
When was the last time you laughed? I mean like proper belly laughed so much you farted or peed your pants a bit?? (I won't tell).
Ok, so you don't actually have to tell me, but think about it? How about the last time you did something outrageous that filled you with joy without giving two hoots about what someone else might say or think? Who decided we were too old to jump in muddy puddles? Since when did adulting have to stop being fun, who even made up that rule??!
What do you want from this adventure called life lovely? What would make you lie there grinning away on your death bed with all your loved ones around you and think 'yep, that was fun! Time for the next adventure!'
Because I'll tell you something my friend, life is far too important to be taken seriously - trust me, I spent too long being serious and sensible and deep. Don't get me wrong, there's a time and place to be sensible (maybe - I'm still working that one out!) But you weren't born to fit in, that's for sure. The beauty of being human is we are each our own unique expressions of awesomeness. The trouble starts when we all try to conform, be 'normal.' Seriously what even is that?! That is when we get bent out of shape and things get serious.
I wrote a poem just for you .....
You were not born to fit in a box.
You have twisted, contorted and bent yourself in all kinds of directions,
taking on board the shoulds, musts and cant's of others along the way
until your light was deemed suitably dimmed and you’d shrunk enough to fit into a box you long out grew.
But you were never born to fit in a box.
It's time to come out.
Come out. Let yourself spill out and overflow,
colour beyond the lines, let it be messy,
let it be the truest most vibrant expression of you.
It's time for you to take up your space in this world,
all of it; and shine your light like the frickin' super nova you were born to be until there are no dark corners left to fear.
we are born to be real not perfect
and when you let your perfectly imperfect light shine unapologetically,
you are beyond beautiful.
Come on, why don't you join me, live a life outside the box. It's fun out here!
You are so much more than you think you are....
Are you ready to Rise and Shine?
Ok, so I know this can feel a little scary, there's a part inside of you screaming "Yes! Let's do this!!" and then there's that other part of you going "wooooow Nelly, who do you think you are? You've got it good, you really shouldn't be complaining, why rock the boat? Anyway, who are you to want more?
Girl who are you NOT to??!
Seriously I lived by that narrative for YEARS (yawn).
(insert voice of Beaker from the muppets here)
Why should I be different to anyone else?
Everyone else seems to just get on with it without moaning or complaining?
Getting a sensible job is just part of life.
You are so full of yourself thinking you can create some amazing life, do you think you're better than everyone else?
Oh people will hate me if I succeed
People will think I'm weird or ungrateful..
blah blah blah
Honestly? It was exhausting keeping myself in that box,
turned out it lead me to some pretty dark days of depression and anxiety too.
That box that so many of us find ourselves living in? It almost ended up putting me into an actual box but lucky for me I came across a wise wizard just in time and so here I am, sharing the magic that set me free!
She remembered who she was and the game changed.